The turn off

The Motherhole hosts this gathering. Only for women. The Motherhole has three realms: Eros, Mother and Crone. This is an Eros gathering. Eros is not sex. It’s the charge that lives underneath language. The pull. The no. The yes that arrives before thought. It’s sensation. It’s appetite. It’s the body remembering itself. Theme of the gathering Not what turns you on. What turns you off. The moment your body says no. The instant something closes. The loss of interest. The sudden dryness. The irritation you can’t justify. Most women are trained to override that moment. To soften it. To explain it away. To make it reasonable. This gathering is about the intelligence of your turn-off. Because often what shuts down is not desire. It is tolerance. It is self-betrayal. It is exhaustion. It is misalignment. We don’t gather to increase desire. We gather to understand what your body refuses. What we will do This is a structured, guided gathering. The focus is articulation. We are holding a shared space in which you can examine the moments your desire retracts, hardens, or disappears. You will write in response to precise prompts. You will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe, we promise! You do not need to justify your no. You do not need to defend your boundaries. You do not need to turn anything into insight. We slow the moment down. We stay with it. We listen to what the body already decided. The focus of the evening We explore aspects of Eros that are rarely named directly: • the body’s immediate no • the loss of attraction you can’t explain • irritation inside intimacy • boredom inside repetition • the fatigue of being desired • the difference between fear and disinterest • the clarity that arrives when you stop overriding yourself This is not about libido. It is about discernment. Many women have strong desire. But even stronger boundaries. This gathering offers a way to understand what your body is protecting. The Motherhole The Motherhole. The first gate. The original opening. The Motherhole is the place where life arrives, where identity fractures, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others. And then, one day, becomes yours again. The Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters. Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened, and what is happening now. Not to be fixed. Not to be guided. Not to be improved. But to be heard. Each Motherhole gathering follows a shared method. Not because one method fits all, but because experience needs holding in order to move. We work with words, bodies, breath, and sound. Sometimes with silence. Sometimes with meditation. Sometimes through writing. Sometimes through reading and voicing. Sometimes through movement or stillness. Not everything happens every time. But always a shared speaking at the end. Nothing is forced. You can speak. You can stay quiet. You can pass. Listening counts. The structure holds the room so experience can move, without being explained, fixed, or turned into a performance. The Motherhole has three realms Eros The realm of desire. Of appetite. Of what still wants you. Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal. The pull toward life that never went quiet. Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless. Mother The realm of cost. Of responsibility. Of what life required of you. Birth. Care. Loss of self. The moment you became a passage. Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined. Crone The realm of ownership. Of what you no longer give away. No more passage for life. No more explanation. Menopause. Authority. Clarity. The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself. Read more at Https://themotherhole.com Practical details • Date: Friday, March 6 • Time: Doors open at 17.30. Come early to land in the space, eat before we begin. Gathering starts at 18:00 • Length: 3 hours • Group size: Maximum 12 participants • Location: Sensual Institute, Tavastgatan 43, 118 24 Stockholm • Price: 500 SEK • Snacks and drinks included Space holder Camilla Wellton, creator of the Sensual Hero’s Journey™ and author of the I AWAKE series Find out more on her insta and her website i-awake.com • Dress as you like • Queer friendly • Neurospicy friendly Booking & pricing • 500 SEK per participant if you feel called but cannot afford it right now pls reach out and we’ll figure something out! • Bookings are non-refundable, but transferable